Tuesday, 11 January 2011

“Sometimes the memories are worth the pain.”



Sorry to be soppy, but recently while being in Italy my boyfriend Rob & I have decided to separate unfortunately after 2 years together. Being on ERASMUS has been hard for the both of us and we were just making each other unhappy, Its not easy for me to visit him and as he is in his last most important year at university and has no time either. Its all quite complicated for our young ages and hopefully we can stay friends as he was the perfect boyfriend and I can only describe this situation a shame.
   

30 comments:

lavel said...

Nice photos! And nice guy :>

Victoria India said...

Awh hun! That's really nice what you just wrote and it sounds like it's the best thing in the situation you're both in.
Who knows what will happen in years to come :)
I hope you're ok, sending big love to you! xo

vivthediv said...

Aww hope you're ok - I know how it feels, just split up with my boyfriend of 2 years too so I can really empathise.
Stay strong, you never know what the future holds!! x

vint junky said...

Aw adele. That's very sad, I'm sorry that happened. I agree that sometimes these things just don't happen at the right time, but it must be hard for you both after 2 years together.
xxx

Giulia Pergolati said...

So if he is really busy as you said, he would wait for you ♥

Dont be upset, none knows what is going on tomorrow, who knows about next year? :)

Abi said...

I'm really sorry to hear that darling and hope you're okay. It is so difficult to separate with somebody you love so dearly when all that separates you is distance. Sending lots of love x

Vicky said...

Aw, sorry to hear this. Hope your OK. I guess you never know what's just around the corner though. Chin up x

Rachel said...

I'm sorry hun, I hope you feel better about it - and life does go on.

CAT said...

lots of love. i love your blog :) xxx

Sephira said...

I hope the best for you hun! It's sad that this happened but I understand that you guys chose to do it, long distance is really tough :(

I want to say "I hope you're okay" but no one ever is in this situation but everyone gets to 'okay' at some point.

xx seph

Dancing Branflake said...

I am so sorry! You guys were a cute couple. You both look so happy and darling. He's a cutie! Yay for happy memories.

Group hug!

Katie said...

Im so sorry :(

Shabna said...

Aw Adele, you're so lovely for writing about this! Who knows, the future can hold anything! You both look amazing by the way, sending loads of hugs to you! <3 xoxo

HiFashion said...

Oh no. Hope you're ok. Hopefully, the future has an amazing guy for you. But by the sounds of it, it seems like well thought out decision.

Catarina said...

I'm sorry. I understand what you're going through...I recently broke up with my bf of 7 years, it's hard but we'll overcome it and who's to say the break up is forever

SabinePsynopsis said...

Oh, Adele, you look so lovely together! Life's a bitch sometimes... xoxo

GEMBEAR said...

awh i'm so sorry to hear about this. it's very sad indeed. keep your chin up lovely! i guess the good thing is you're so far away from each other, you will be distracted more easily than if you were in the same area. not much comfort but, you know. just keep busy and tell yourself that it all happens for a reason! xx

Joy and Amore said...

oh,you must be sad.i hope you're oke dear,cheer up! :)

ANDWHATELSEISTHERE said...

i'm very sorry to hear that. totally relate to how you feel. i just realize how hard it is with LDR myself too. Be strong, babe.

ANDWHATELSEISTHERE

SHOP

Neekoh said...

Aww, I'm sorry to hear that, doll. You seem very calm and mature about it, so I have no doubt you'll be feeling better soon.
Much <3!

XXo,
Neekoh

Juliet said...

I'm so sorry for you!

juliet xxx

Rosie said...

Oh, I'm so sorry.
The fact that you posted about it and included such lovely pictures shows how mature you are though!
Beautiful words <3

Rosie x

fashiondevotion said...

Awwww... so sorry to hear that. At least you have a positive outlook, and that's a huge plus! Keep enjoying your erasmus! xxx

www.fashiondevotion.com

KcomeKarolina said...

how cool! cute pics!
it's so fantastic to read your comments! i'm loving it! hope you know that k come karolina is also on bloglovin, facebook and twitter :) so cu soon!!!

xoxo from rome
K.
http://kcomekarolina.blogspot.com/

KIRAFASHION said...

such a fancy and chic swimsuit! I am in love!

and thank you for your friendship...you are so lovely :)

claire (jazzpad.) said...

Oh doll :( I'm sorry I didn't know! It must be / have been so painful, but ultimately it's great that you still want to be friends, and who knows what will happen when you're back in the UK properly. Take care, must meet up soon jazzy ♥

WeShop said...

Oh Adele, so sorry to hear that. Hope you're doing ok. xx

Joanne said...

hey girl, I know how you feel. My bf and I broke up (though we were together for less than 2 years) but we broke up for similar reasons too.
It definitely sucks to have to break up with someone whom you still love but at least it didn't end in a sour note! stay happy and strong (:

Dexter said...

I'm sorry about that, but I find it hard to accept that people who have been together for years separate while not being together for just a few months...Anyway, again, I'm sorry. Me and gf avoided the chance to get the "Erasmus-breakup" as we went together to the same place, same time :)

ediot said...

wish you all the best. if it's right you might get back together in a later stage.
it sounds sad. but i think you'll manage darling
x